Oh man, you hit on so many things for me in your post. The triggers are incredible.

The garage door, although I never hear it at all hours of the night anymore, would be a huge one for me. Actually brings tears to my eyes and makes me cringe just to think of hearing it.

My triggers right now are visual. The spare room itself is tough for me, but the bed in it worse. It belongs to my FIL, he was kind enough to let me borrow it when I had moved out for 6 months, then again kind enough to let me know H wanted it in the spare room for himself. That was how I found out H was moving into the spare room. I hate that bed and want it out. Just today, I was thinking I need to contact FIL and find a way to get it back to him.

It's good to hear there is hope to work past those triggers, it's hard for me to imagine at this point. I really love your air purifier idea smile I admire you and enjoy reading your progress.


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
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