yeah - i'm great - lurk now and then. have had the girls most of this fortnight as Mum's away on business. Feels like a real family, minus the uncommitted. I think every day about our discussion and it really has changed my life. My view of the M, everything.
WRT the M, my biggest mistake was allowing it to happen. I put up with being a noted 2nd class citizen for a long time. I think the lifestyle suited my W, and this was her motivation. But we got a point where I started to detach from the unrequited love R we had set up. She lost her power over me, and also her draw. This just escalated the R dynamic that we had fallen into.
Otherwise, 6 more days until I file for consent order to be made by court re:custody. W has danced around, made empty threats for long enough. It will be a while before even an interim order is made, at least 3 months, until then - status quo. And then, whatever the order is - things are always changing huh.
I hope all is well for you. I really have to get some work done now.
-Py
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
