EMMess, I know its hard VERY hard, I too found out my W is talking to OMs / OM , really hard to digest. Pictures and everything.
And none of it was shared with me us, like a double life shes been living.
Hang in there brother, lets keep praying, our kids deserve their parents together the family together. go to ksgn 89.7 and request a prayer, people from around the country will pray for your sitch.
Lets hope it is in GODS will to reunite with our WAS