I haven't posted here in a long time. But I do read around every so often and it breaks my heart to see you feeling this way about this divorce process. You need to take care of yourself and your daughter. Don't drag your feet! Take the high road and do what your lawyer asks of you. All the paperwork, anything that is required. Stay way ahead of it, better than he does. Not easy but in the long run it's much better to cooperate with the process. It doesn't matter what STBX thinks is unfair, what matters is the law. I too let my lawyer do the talking to the other lawyer. It protected me as Rick mentioned. Get centered, stay strong, and do the work. It's business. Good luck. Wonder