So I sent a TM to WW today to confirm plans with kids tonight. This is not a normal night for her, but makeup for missing last night. She was once again trying to coordinate through S18 and he let me know. I had no idea what time they were leaving, coming home, whether she was providing dinner, etc. So I fired off a TM and we got a little convo going. It was mostly about kids and how the week has been going but I snuck in a couple of jokes and got some "LOL" replies.
Felt good to be somewhat friendly. Probably not the best DBing but I'm doing my best to let her know I'm not trying to be her enemy. I realize I can't do that very often but it was nice to have that tiny connection for a few minutes. Now I'm off to my local clubhouse to enjoy some friends, beer, and the first night of NFL games. Should be a good time.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.