be warm, kind and cheerful show appreciation verbally no pursuing for physical affection or time spent together cheerful and accepting if he initiates affection or time spent together
As B said, this is a good framework. But how will you know if you succeeded. What will you look for on Sept 30 to know if you accomplished these? What actual behaviors will you DO?
Originally Posted By: SJ
How will I know it is working:
he asks to spend time with me he asks me questions about my day or how I am feeling he initiates physical affection or sex he spends evenings in the same room as me two or three times in a week
How does that sound?
For a start these are ok too. But I think they may be a couple steps ahead of where you are now. If I told you that you would R, what would be the FIRST few things you'd look for?
