Do you mean goals for me, or goals for him? I feel pretty happy with how things are with my work, kids and hobbies. There's always room for improvement, of course. I am listening.
I mean goals for you. You can't really set goals for things that you have no control over. So what kinds of things will you do in order to instill change into your R?
AND what kinds of signs will you look for to know if it's working? What kinds of reactions will you look for to know if you are making "progress"?