Divorce laws in every state are different. I if you have a lawyer let that person deal with negotiating. Divorce is like a business contract that was broken and should be treated as such. I gave my L full negotiating power so my emotions would not get in the way. It is a painful process.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”