I should add, that my immediate reaction is to try to reason with her about letting this have time & what we are both going through, & why does is she so sure that this is best. I won't, but you recognize how much it still prods and pulls at you.

Just don't react. A good mantra.

Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15