Originally Posted By: jjal
Somewhat decent sleep 2nd night in a row.

Detaching getting a little easier. Wife's emails have gotten terse, but I can't bother myself terribly about why. She is the one that left, skipping out on all responsibilities to go live it up as a single woman. Focusing on my well being and needs for once.

That's all you really can do. I rarely speak to or see my WW at all anymore. Maybe a couple of texts every few days. It's hard because I really do miss her but it is definitely helping me detach. Focus on you and try to stay busy. I've found that when doing something fun or talking to others I don't think about WW. It takes a long time but will start to get easier.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.