Originally Posted By: SpinningJenny
Just some journalling and random thoughts. Though I could really do with a response if anyone is still reading...

So - DH has been a little warmer to me today. Last night he came up and laid in bed with me for a while and watched a film. He went to sleep elsewhere, alone. I was cheerful and friendly today and said I liked spending time with him last night. I made sure to thank and praise and compliment him often. I think he likes me doing it. He's certainly been kinder and he accepted a hug from me today. I don't think that was pursuing - I didn't have expectations - I just wanted to thank him for a big job he'd done on the house and show him I was happy about it.


Nothing is going to change overnight. This all sounds like great progress.

But when was the last time he did either of the things in bold?

Try not to get impatient!