No problem on hijack - man - our stories are so so similar.
It is eerie.
I am in the same boat you are - just a matter of time. I am doing what I can to heal myself. It is not easy and there are better days than others but what else can we do but move it forward?
What a crappy way to get the news your W wants a separation - a text message. Gad.
Your W is having an affair right? That explains why she is acting so mean and quickly. All the hallmarks of another man. Have you confirmed this?