I can see why thats frustrating, but i'm guessing its never been any different?
I was tempted to type something philosophical about acceptance but instead I'm going to say what does it cost you to keep him informed and its not for his benefit its for the girls.
and for no reason other than I was inspired by your conversation with zues
Q: what do you call an alligator with GPS? A: A Navi-Gator
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress