My W is a great mother and always has been. She loves our kids more than life. I don't want them to think badly of her. I just want them to know that I did all I could to repair the sitch.
Im worried that what I marked in red and what I marked in blue are going to be mutually exclusive. That said, I dont think it is your job to worry about or influence either one of these. The relationship between your W and your kids is between them. The more you butt in, the worse your W will think of you. Id just leave it all alone.
