After consideration of everything that has been going on, W seems to want to normalize this as much as possible and I guess I can't fault her for wanting to do that. If I were in her shoes, that is what I would try to do as well.
Is she trying to reintegrate herself into family life with the recent apperances at soccer practice and scouting? Why does she continue to text me with odd requests? She wants to do scheduling for games on my calendar, she wants to know where X is, she wanted me to know XXX.
All I can think to do is just carry on, demonstrate that I am a confident and loving mom and we are fine without her.