Hi dday

I am sorry you have found yourself here

Can you tell us a little more about what lead up to the Ilyb and we will try and help

More often the w might have been having these thoughts for quite some time about leaving sometimes it takes the straw that broke to get her to act

Any signs things were not right before feb

Defiantly read the 37 rules they really help do not peruse or beg

There are some very experienced vets here and you are amongst friends so keep posting

Take good care of yourself this is a journey

You will be alright

Ghost

Last edited by Ghost56; 09/10/15 04:24 PM.

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.