Sotto,

Thanks for the advise. I kind of knew that I shouldn't write her or tell her how it makes me feel that she will not go with us. I just needed to hear it from one of you guys.

What do you think I should tell the kids? They know how bad things are right now and maybe they wont even ask. I have struggled about how much or little to tell them. They see me changing for the better and my relationship with them has improved drastically.

I want them to know that I am trying to keep our family together. In the end I guess I want them to know that this was not my decision.

My W is a great mother and always has been. She loves our kids more than life. I don't want them to think badly of her. I just want them to know that I did all I could to repair the sitch.


M:39
W:40
S:10
S:7
D:12
BD:3/5/15
Separate BR:3/5/15
W moved out with kids 1/3/16