Hi Tk, no I wouldn't do anything about this. Just respect your W's choice that she doesn't wish to come and understand it would make her uncomfortable at this point. You resisting it, or trying to pursuade her (by telling he how much this bothers you) won't be productive would be my guess.

Let her be, go and make the most of it with your kids and decide on what you will tell others. It could be as simple as - oh, she had to work this weekend...

A big part of DBing is managing to let go some of these things that bother us and accept 'what is, right now.' We may not like it, but we can accept it.

Good luck with things my friend smile

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus