Hey dday. Sorry to hear about this. Based on my personal experience, and many others on the DB forum, I would not be so certain that there is no affair involved. The described behavior is very typical for women in an affair. It might have taken her until June to get up the "courage" to file or to plan an exit strategy. You will have to keep your cool and keep your emotions in check. This is very difficult, but DR will help you, and other members on the forum will help. Make sure to read Sandi's posts, as they will be the most informative in this situation.
Me:29 W:27 M: 4 years T: 5 years No children S: 7/7/15 EA: 7/7/15 BD/"I'm done": 7/15/15 MC: 7/7/15-8/21/15 (failed) PA: 8/29/15 W Files for D: 9/9/15 D will finalize in 60 days
