THe last time she was cheating, 7 years ago, and I found out she became cold, and didn't want sex. It wasn't until I scared away the OM that she came crawling back. This time she claims being away from me for 40 days has made her realize how much she has to have me. She says she felt dirty, and cried all night when her and OM had sex. He keeps calling her, but she don't answer. I still don't trust though.