Welcome. Hi. How ya doing? Okay, now that manners are out the way, here's my input.
1. God invented sex. He invented it to be fun and a reward for the hard work that goes into marriage. By the way, if you check out the Old Testament you will find that God had once a day in mind during those times between monthly.
2. Switch from evening sex to morning. Men tend to "rise" in the morning.
3. Plan for sex. Have your own personal and private schedule book. On those days plan a light day and do things that are soothing. Like a long bubblebath and a full body lotioning.
4. Next time he starts with the women put down remind him that you love him even if sometimes he gets stuck on stupid like all men do.
5. Make a game out of finding out what he considers sexy. Some men are more visual than others. Some go for a scent. One guy I know is a chef. He taught me you can seduce someone with food.
6. Go to church without your panties and tell him after you get there.
7. Don't pull away. Don't get in the habit of pulling away. Get in close even in arguement. Be brave his body is yours to use.
