Sotto, thank you so much for dropping by! Isn't it amazing how many people have the right answer for us? They're well meaning but still! I really like your idea of validating my over eager friends. Maybe that would help them to hear that I'm understanding what their point is and I appreciate their advice. They don't understand the DB process and I shouldn't keep trying to explain. Validation will probably work much better.
Hope your week is going well too!
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