I hate him having a f. roomie as well, for you. Sooo sorry! At this point, trust is very delicate as you feel your security is gone. Don't know what to say, except...have faith!
On the other hand, the list is an awesome idea! I'd love to borrow this for my M when we are ready. Those were really, well thought-out points to get through.
Keep working on you & try to quell the fears! (Easier said than done, for sure!)
Me:46 H:42 T:7 M:5 MD(H SD):24 MS(H SS):19 MS(H SS):13 Separated on & off most of '15 WAH last left 8/15 WAH changed locks & Bank account of joint business 8/15
At this point, trust is very delicate as you feel your security is gone. Don't know what to say, except...have faith! 