Beagley, I don't exactly feel powerless. Mostly just conflicted. I am a control freak and it was a issue with our marriage. It is a big 180 for me to just let things go and wait for H to make a move. I need to find a balance between letting go of control and being a doormat.

My friends and family are constantly telling me I need to move forward, make him get all his stuff out etc. I don't even tell them I'm DBing any more.


Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming