If I say to you "stop thinking about Pink Elephants" what happens.

You see a Pink Elephant.

If I read

Originally Posted By: Lost08


Also, while I've been dreading H leaving again and knowing I will fall apart when he does, I'm also thinking maybe it will be good for me. Out of sight, out of mind. I won't be able to look at him and think of how much I love him, how I love his eyes and his hands and the sound of his voice, and the way he laughs and the way he is with my children. There will be limited contact, only thru the computer. I'm sure it will be pleasant but aloof b/c he'll be back with OW and his responsibility free life and he'll be just a small computer image. Maybe I'll be able to find my way thru my grief and start to move on.


What will happen?

Isn't there an easier, softer, gentler way to get to move on. Thinking of happy times with your children perhaps.

Is there a 180 in this? I know this is very difficult but your kids need to see you stand strong and capable. You could choose to do that.

Peace and restful sleep

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 09/10/15 12:06 AM.
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