Background info: H and I have been married for six months. We met in February 2000, officially engaged January 2002, married in September 2003.
We've been SSM for as long as I can remember. When we first started seeing each other, everything was fine but we had our SSM problems from before we were even engaged.
The reason that I am hesitating at sharing the book with him at this stage is that he has been a witness to my many attempts at trying to reignite my stale libido. Nothing I have tried has worked so far, admittedly I have given most things a half hearted try at best because they did not speak to my situation like this book does. From past experience I know that any attempt that I make to share with him that I am trying something different will be met with more aspersions, e.g., "You'll never change", "You hate sex, just admit it", etc etc. But if the veterans here think that sharing the book is the right thing to do, then I'm all for it. He will probably not read it because it was written by a woman and he thinks that all women think alike (i.e., like his best friend's GF who gave him sex once every few months at best for the seven years they dated) so it may be a hopeless cause but I'm willing to try anything.
