Id say that's great advice, and truth is that sex is the LAST thing on my mind. It wasn't the reason I loved her so much. It was her work ethic, and her cooking, and her sense of humor, and so on.
On the other hand I think SHE was basically in it for sex with ME. I hate sounding snobby, but I am a really good looking man, and in great shape. I just didn't meet the emotional needs. SHe wants me to lay her down because Im good at it, but Im not into that right now. Ive had enough sex for a lifetime. I need trust.
