My best suggestion is ask HeavyD, she is fantastic at this stuff and cooperating with her wife on co parenting, it hasn't been easy for her to reach that point.

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Make a link to your post above.

Oh and that is a request to make life easier for both of you and so there is no mix ups and you do love your Ds and want to share life with them, to free her time, aid communication........ isn't it with a validation?

And if you have to start with some crappy nights it's worth it, they are your kids. You won't regret a second if you do, but will have lots of regrets if you don't. No nights are really crappy if you get to be with your kids in active mode, but you would also like chill time too wouldn't you?

Attitude shift if you need to cooperate.

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Last edited by Vanilla; 09/09/15 09:06 PM.
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