BT13, I'm starting to think it would be better to move the divorce forward myself - go ahead and submit my settlement proposal. I don't know how I can possibly detach while I am still in limbo. Some of his stuff is still at my house, his mail is still coming there, we have joint bank accounts that need to be closed. So many things tying us together - and all of it weighing on me.

I think my situation is pretty hopeless anyway. Probably best to move on but it's really hard.

Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming