I think I belong in Piecing...

[Painter]

I am 95% certain he is not the F. There will be doubt in my mind until I know who it is, or until H sends a letter to her.

He mostly does guy stuff with his friends, I enjoy some of it at times, but a lot of it is loud, fast outdoors stuff that involves drinking. We talked about it the other day (another very peaceful talk, actually), and H admitted openly that he is guilty of just wanting to do his most favorite activities on his days off, to de-stress, and not being willing to compromise in order to do something we both enjoy to spend time together. He feels that he has so little time off that he should do what he wants the most.

I find it a little sad that his favorite activity is not to spend time with me... He says he wants me to be a part of his activities, and feels a little put out that I'm not going with him. So that is where he concludes that we are just 'too different'.

To me, almost anything that he and I do together is nice and quality time, except when it involves something loud, fast and drinking...