So, if Im reading this correctly, for you, you need to be divorced to start seeing other women. Otherwise, Im not sure how "being divorced" changes any of these things. I guess I understand if you need that legal paper telling you that you are "free" to make that next step.
I am proud that you can realize these things, and understand that you need them.
That is not the point, but yes in order for me to pursue other options I need to be legally D.
WAS already has her new place, new friends and so do I, we are completely physically detached, I just really need to move on, this just hurts TOO much to be there as her friend.
I rather completely cut all ties and make it official, makes no sense to live in 2 different houses, have different lives, not talk, not text, etc. and still be legally married?
