Personally, I would (and did) file. Divorce actions can always be subsequently put on hold, or even withdrawn.

Agree though on the thought that you're way past talking about this any further with her.


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)