Hi Deja-your time with family sounds wonderful and much needed.
It's always interesting to see what one notices, both internally and externally when returning to one's family of origin after a long break.
Hope you are able to get some much deserved rest after so much travel.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced