My Reader's Digest Version

[SParker]

I am reevaluating things, but to be fair, this hasn't been just over a week's time. The fight happened a month ago. Much has happened since although I realize that a month is not that long in the scheme of things. I do acknowledge that I have been feeling like pushing my agenda a bit and need to work more on that.

I don't feel like my sitch fits most of the molds here because, H wants our M to work as well. This is not some delusion on my part, unless I'm hearing his voice explain how much he loves me & wants our M while he isn't actually saying anything! Last time I checked, I didn't hear voices that weren't there so I think I'm okay there. I'm not looking for a pecking order on this site, I just want to make things better for my M. I don't care who joined 1 day ago or 10 yrs. ago. There has been good advice, then there has been well meant advice by people basing everything on their own sitch. I get that it is easy to do when you're so involved in personal problems, you view everything through your perspective that is obtained from your own sitch. I believe that's why they say to take the advice that you believe makes since for you on here.

I love the encouragement of this site! I need most of the tips I've been offered and have much work to do! (As I will for the rest of my life.)

I don't know how else to respond right now. Not sure why my words have stirred up such a hornet's nest here!

I hope you all have a great day!