Backslide alert! I recieved a message from XF "what gives you the right to tell people they can't talk to me".

I responded, pardon me?

To which she started going nuts through text messages accusing me of telling people they can't talk to her and I'm trying to control her life. It just kept coming.

In a moment of weakness, I responded "is fantasy land crumbling? Can you finally see all the damage you have done? You threw away 7 years of both our lives, I hope you're happy".

That did not go well, in the end of the conversation I actually said that I was done. There's not a bridge left to repair, it's been completely burned...

I have mixed emotions on this right now. In a way I feel relived, but in a big way I feel like I failed at DBing. I feel like I may have just broke the camels back?

I know better and let my stupid emotions type my responses instead of my brain!


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home