My options are limited. I could ask H to sleep at home, but I don't know how it sounds?? Or I could ask in-laws, but I'm not sure if the exposure at this point will be helpful or not (because I can see in-laws getting mad and trying to reason/preach him) Last night he came in earlier. (I laugh at myself saying that H coming home at 2:30am is early) ...and slept the rest of the night on the couch. I guess I could afford an apartment, but that is the last thing I want to do with kids. I really want to maintain their "normal" as much as possible. My D3 is starting to feel something is wrong (like we never do things as a whole family anymore) She is more clingy to me and having a separation anxiety at times...