Seattle, good to hear from you. I see you've updated your thread recently, I'll try to stop by today.
W has always been good at talking about her feelings. W is also a very good listener. I would have to say W's communication skills overall are very good, its part of what makes her so good at sales.
When W talks about us lately, there is often a lot of regret for what happened, some confusion, and a fair amount of venting. She questions why it had to come to where it did, why I couldn't get the point sooner. She does not like the idea of going back on such a big decision, a decision she put months of thought into. I just do my best to listen and validate and understand, no matter what she is expressing. Her feelings are important to me. I can only wish I'd paid more attention sooner, but there's no point in wishing for a better past.
If forced to choose between Chandler and Ross, I would have to choose Chandler.
