just read your first thread Ghost56 and it is EXACTLY my sitch.this is uncany:

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My name is Gary and 3 weeks ago my wife of 17 years and partner of 25 years has told me that she wants to separate

She has told me that for so long she has been feeling so lonely and that I have not been there for her when she needed me

3 years ago we were at the point of separation over the same issues and managed to get back together

Over the years my wife has tried to talk to me but I never really listened and now I feel that it is too late.

I love her with all my heart and cannot imagine not being with her..... My wife feels much resentment towards me


Will read the rest later as late for work....

Married Dec. 1997
EA discovered April 2011
H lived at home until August 10th 2015
Separated August 10th 2015
kids aged 8. 14 and 15
I think we're done.