Thanks once again for taking the time to stop by. Just so you know yes, when you post on my thread it does help immensely. You are of course correct, I need to stop speaking on behalf of the STBX.
I did have a very good conversation with S10 last night. He opened up in a way he's never done so before and it made me feel better that he trusted me enough with what's going on with him. I was impressed at how mature he is in his handling of the situation. That conversation is between he and I and I've reassured him it will stay that way.
So yea, no secretes with the OM. I'm not sure if he has any at the moment but then again he may well have. After last night I firmly believe that I've made an inroad with him were he can trust me fully to tell me anything he feels the need to.
Once again, thanks
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
