Bright - I wish I could offer you additional great advice; but you have already received so much. I can offer you kindness and support. You are a wonderful person and it hurts to feel the rejection and indifference from someone who was/is such an important part of your life. Focus on you and continue to move forward.
H: 48 Me: 47 Married: 19 yrs T: 20 yrs 2 teen-Ds and S H-MLC (started 2012) and H-Unemployed (11/2014) D-Bomb: 2/2015 H left country but hasn't moved out: 7/2015 I filed: 7/2015