Jim0987 #15 - Further on up the road

[jim0987]

Your last rolo! I truly am honoured.

So the drink with OM thing....

Ive mentioned it once to XW and once directly to OM1. My intention is that I will never mention it again.

I don't want to be friends with OM1 or with my XW, but at the same time I have to work with her as a coparent and I have to accept he is a massive part of my kids (and therefore my) life. He's not a really bad guy but equally I know very little about someone my kids spend near 50% of their time with.

So really I just want to be open to accepting him as not doing so only hurts me and as far as possible I want to minimise the friction between us as that has to be better for the kids.

Hopefully that makes more sense.

GAL, well I had a pretty solid last 10 days or so but its then a little light on the GAL front coming up. Very few invites come my way so I have to I initiate plans generally, and that takes work (and involves a lot of what feels like rejection). To be honest I have way too much work to do for much GAL anyway.

But kids tonight, sport tomorrow, out with friends Friday then kids Saturday into Sunday. So some good plans.