Hi Sotto. Really positive post and even the thoughts on H and D sound health

Your story re the lady with one lung really resonated with me. I was on Dyalisis for 5 years and the kidney problems that cause the need for it make you very tired and weak. The Dyalisis itself makes your feel even worse and it's a vicious circle. When I would head upto the hospital I would often feel very sorry for myself I had normally done a full day's work and then had the treatment and would not be home until about 12 o'clock On my shift of Dyalisis were 8 people and one of them was a young girl who had Down's syndrome , had no legs and thalidomite type arms. I would walk in , she would beam up at me and say Hi with such enthusiasm that you would feel guilty for even having a 'poor me ' thought. I would complement her on her hair or top or something and she would burst into giggles I never saw that young lady sad

Be grateful for what we have Sotto is an caring attractive , successful person who has a huge amount of good in her life and that's the end of the matter. Oh yea , and a dope of a husband who's too stupid to realise what his losing

Take care. Rd. xxxx