Glad that you and W were able to be with your D together on her first day at school. Even if things were a little quiet, you were both there for her and that's great.
Now then, with OM, can I pick up on this whole 'come for a drink' thing? I get that you want to accept he will be around your kids just now, and you want a good situation for them. But do you really want to go out for a drink with this guy? I can't imagine ever wanting to go out for a drink with OW, so I'm struggling to wrap my head around it.
What does it actually do for you? I'm not trying to sound challenging (as you know I have all the time in the world for lovely Jim). But I just wonder where you are going with this desire to link some more with OM? From my perspective, things can be fine for the kids as long as you are civil to OM when you see him....but I'm getting this sense of - is Jim keen to show something to OM?
Anyway...enough of boring OM, who's R with your W is likely to be doomed anyway. What of you? Are you up to some nice things this week my friend??
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
