Hi HaWho, I agree that you are showing great wisdom and patience with your sitch. And a great analogy with the feral cat....I just hope he doesn't spray anywhere!!

I'm glad to read how things are going for you guys and find it useful to keep up with your thread.

Good luck with everything xx

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Me 48 H 46
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D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus