renew-wow, sounds like you had a very, very productive weekend. There are so many positives in your goals. Just thought I would share this with you...when I was with OM, I neve told him anything about my H or what we did together. This was OM was in my life, but not really in my life, I wasn't sharing with him. and I did this because I still love h. Again, every time I read that she speaks to you about seeing OM and you take it in stride, I really, really respect you for that. and what you did with the lady you met in the bar--very cool!