On Saturday, the WW was going to drop the kids off at 5pm at my place. She didn't show up until 7ish. At the time she came the new girl was at my house with her daughter and they met. I have dated a few different people since the WW left, but this was the first time she actually met someone. It was fine, a little tense, but fine.
Sunday I met up with the WW to go over some paperwork. She told me that she went out on Saturday night after leaving my place and didn't feel well so she went home early. She looked rough. I know she knows about me dating (she is doing the same) but she finally had to meet someone and was intimidated.
Since then she texts a few times a day, sends photos of the kids, etc. So today, while I was at work she sent this...
"Hey how's your day going? You just popped in my head and I wanted to say hi."
It was a complete temp check (thank you books!) and I responded with a brief statement. Saying I was doing well but really busy at work. She then text talking about how fast our kids are growing up and babies and crap. I responded back with "I really don't want to talk about what ifs, what could have beens or anything else like that anymore. Have a great day!" and left it at that.
She has convinced herself that I am still chasing after her and I think she is realizing that it isn't the case. I haven't heard back from her. BUT her Mom called me a few hours later and asked how I was and what was new. I do not trust her, which is sad, because I used to have a very close relationship with my mother in law, not anymore though. I just filled her in on how work was going, what was going on with the kids and that was it. She asked about the new girl and if it was getting serious and I told her that I didn't really feel comfortable talking to her about it. I could hear her jaw hit the ground.
I hate playing games, but wow, is it all a game?
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016
