What were you thinking about when you said H has his own trust issues?
Well, I think the WAS trusted that they would have a partner in life that provided certain needs in the M. Whatever negative things or issues we contributed to the M in away broke trust from their perspective. I think this is why changes post BD are questioned. They don't trust that the LBS will truly change for good or for the right reasons.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015