In the beginning, my H bailed on so many things that involved our son. I was so disappointed, our children are the innocent victims in this.
However, over time, H came back around and started making our son a priority again. In the last 6 months, I have seen true efforts to rebuild his relationship with him.
Give it some time, hopefully your husband will start to miss the children and make them a priority again.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-