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Has anybody on here had any personal experience or know anyone who has gone through discernment counseling? Thoughts??

I found a few people in my area that specialize in this. It was developed based out of a study in Minnesota after they found that do many people regretted decision to D and there is not a lot of specialized support for those in "limbo". It is the step to decide what path to take--D, status quo, or intensive MT. I shared with H and he is contemplating going. My expectations are low. The questions are to elicit if the leaning out spouse is really done by asking questions in a way that might get them to reconsider or rethink their position. i.e. I hear you say that you are no longer in love with your spouse. My question is do you want to try to be in love with your spouse again?