Time to let go......how?

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Thanks sandi

I read on the detaching a few times a week trying to make sure I stay focused.

The past few days I have definitely distanced myself from her on the interactions. Just as every other time I have done this she walked intoy room this evening and asked if we can discuss some things in the next few days. She knows I was going to talk to counselor about helping draft a separation agreement. I told her I was going tomorrow to find out how she can help and how to get started. I just feel every time I try to move forward and show a different attitude she brings something up to test me. I fought every urge to ask questions or talk and left it at I would let her know after the appointment. I get emotional when she does this but stayed calm in front of her. I also sense she is rushing something formal to let her move on to someone she has waiting. I know there is nothing in a do about that if so. It still hurts. Anyone seen the pattern before though on every time I feel at peace and dealing with things and detaching myself more from her she tries to shake me up? I know true detachment would t care and I know I am not there yet.